Episode 84: Mike Jacobs: Musician & Stay At Home Dad

My guest this episode is Mike Jacobs, bass player in the band On the Cinder, which was formed in Buffalo. He is also a sober dad. Mike shares his experiences as a father, musician, and sober individual. He discusses the challenges of balancing family life with his passion for music, the lessons learned from his journey into parenthood, and the impact of sobriety on his relationships. We talk about the evolution of punk and hardcore music, the role of political commentary in the genre, and the importance of community in fostering a vibrant music scene.

Takeaways

• Mike Jacobs is a bassist in the band On the Cinder.

• He has two children, one of whom is seven months old.

• Parenting can be a balancing act between responsibilities and passions.

• Sobriety has positively impacted his family life and relationships.

• The punk and hardcore music scenes are evolving with new influences.

• Political commentary in punk rock is becoming less prominent.

• Community support is vital for musicians and families alike.

• Grief can shape our perspectives on life and relationships.

• Finding gratitude in challenging times is essential for well-being.

• The importance of all-ages spaces in music scenes cannot be overstated.

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